The Missioner of the United Kingdom and Ireland chapter of the Nasrul-Lahi-L-Fatih Society (NASFAT), Muyideen Ibuowo, has appealed to parents to desist from tele-guiding their children on which career path they have to choose, saying this affects their ability to make decisions in the future.
Ibuowo said that rather than compelling them, the parents should provide guidance on the career path they may have chosen, and not to compel children to take the path that they wanted.
The cleric stated this during the 1st Anniversary Celebration of the Nasrul-Lahi-L-Fatih Society (NASFAT) Swansea Group, held at Swansea Central Mosque, St. Helen’s Road, Swansea, Wales, United Kingdom.
During the event themed ‘Harnessing Self-Esteem as a Pivot for Youth Empowerment and Sustainable Success’, he urged parents to refrain from choosing careers for their children in order to help them become independent and successful in life.
According to him, youth is a stage of life between the ages of 15 and 39 critical period during which parents must be sensitive, patient, provide proper monitoring, listen, show love, and stay close to their children for proper upbringing.
Ibuowo stressed that many children in society today are on the wrong path in life because parents were adamant in choosing careers for them, which negatively affected their self-esteem.
He further explained that many parents have become disconnected from the moral understanding of their children due to the neglect of native languages in favor of foreign languages.
He emphasized that the mother tongue is the first identity of a child and the language through which children initially develop self-esteem, confidence, independence, cultural values, knowledge of Islam, and moral discipline.
He urged parents to stop forcing foreign languages on their children and to avoid competing with neighbors and friends in deciding their children’s career paths.
The cleric noted that such behavior kills children’s self-esteem and causes them to lose track of becoming future leaders.
He also commented on the current Yoruba nationalist movement, saying it has lost its direction. He emphasized that the fight for the Yoruba nation should start from universities where subjects like Biology, Chemistry, Physics, Geography, and Computer Science should be taught in the Yoruba language. This, he believes, would prepare children better for the future and build their self-esteem to face life’s challenges.
The Islamic scholar concluded that the success of any society depends on the success of its youth, while the failure of a society reflects the failure of its youth. He added that parents’ prayers play a vital role in guiding their children towards success and encouraged continuous daily prayers.
Quoting the Prophet of Almighty Allah (Prophet Isa), he said, “Let the children come,” reinforcing the idea that a child’s role in life significantly contributes to the overall success of society.
In his opening speech, the Chairman of the occasion, Dr. Daud Hamzat, who represented by the Vice Chairman of NASFAT UK and Ireland Zone, Rauf Mohammed-Noah , welcomed everyone to the anniversary celebration and congratulated the members of NASFAT, particularly those of the Swansea Group, for their dedication, sacrifice, contributions, unity, and family values. He assured that Islam will continue to flourish.
Hamzat shared the history of the NASFAT Swansea Coordinator’s journey within the organization, noting that he had served as Security Coordinator, Vice Chairman, and Chairman in Nigeria.
He emphasized that growth within NASFAT is possible through dedication and commitment. He highlighted that NASFAT is guided by principles rooted in the Qur’an and Sunnah, and any rule that contradicts them is void.
The chairman encouraged the Swansea Group to aspire to branch status, saying that only branches can be fully integrated into the zonal structure. He advised members to maintain unity and emphasized the importance of establishing an Advisory Council of Elders, as their guidance is invaluable.
Hamzat also stressed the need for a youth executive, noting that several zonal activities, such as Sports Day, Winter Camp, Family Retreat, and Joint Night of Majesty (Lailatul Qadr) require youth participation.
The chairman acknowledged that there will be challenges ahead but urged everyone to work hard to transform the Swansea Group into a full-fledged branch. He once again congratulated all members and wished them continued success in their service to Allah.
Earlier, NASFAT Swansea Group Coordinator, Abdulfatai Omotunde, welcomed everyone to the gathering. He praised Almighty Allah and expressed deep joy and fulfillment at the historic gathering in Swansea, Wales, United Kingdom.
Omotunde shared that what once seemed nearly impossible had become a beautiful reality through Allah’s grace. He emphasized that offering Asalatul remains a powerful tool for both personal and communal spiritual upliftment.
He said the vision for NASFAT Swansea began to form in his heart the very first day he attended a Jumah service in the UK and saw fellow Nigerian Muslims.
He felt a strong need not just for companionship, but for a space where Muslims could come together regularly, support one another, pray as one Ummah, and raise children grounded in Islamic teachings within a Western society.
Omotunde noted that he was convinced that NASFAT, with its structured focus on spiritual growth, societal development, and communal responsibility, was the best platform to nurture that vision.
He reflected on his long journey with NASFAT, having held various leadership roles in Nigeria, including Security Coordinator, Cooperative Secretary, Vice Chairman, and two-term Chairman of the Alagbole-Akute Branch in Ogun State (2003–2018), as well as Coordinator of the Magboro and Arepo Groups (2020–2022), before relocating to the United Kingdom.
He shared that starting NASFAT in Swansea was initially challenging due to work and life demands in the UK, which made him doubt whether consistent religious gatherings would be possible. However, he expressed gratitude that it has now become a reality.
Omotunde thanked the dedicated, selfless, and visionary executive team, mission board, and committed men and women who worked hard to make NASFAT Swansea not just a reality, but a strong Islamic presence in the UK.
He also announced the establishment of a madrasah (Arabic class) for children, which will commence in mid-July 2025, insha Allah, serving as a beacon of Islamic education for the next generation.
He urged all members, elders, and guests to see the gathering not just as a celebration, but as a reaffirmation of their shared commitment to serve Allah sincerely, uplift the Ummah through knowledge and prayer, and secure the future of their children in line with Islamic values.
